Move message splitting from individual channels (Discord) to the Manager
layer via per-channel worker goroutines. Each channel now declares its
max message length through BaseChannelOption/MessageLengthProvider, and
the Manager automatically splits oversized outbound messages before
dispatch. This prevents one slow channel from blocking all others.
- Add WithMaxMessageLength option and MessageLengthProvider interface
- Set platform-specific limits (Discord 2000, Telegram 4096, Slack 40000, etc.)
- Convert SplitMessage to rune-aware counting for correct Unicode handling
- Replace single dispatcher goroutine with per-channel buffered worker queues
- Remove Discord's internal SplitMessage call (now handled centrally)
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